Bismillah.
When we constantly belittle our children there comes a time when they begin to believe whatever we have said. This results in low self esteem and psychological disorders or complexes. In turn they resort to irresponsible behaviour and habits. However, when we constantly praise our children, telling them how important they are to us, how much we love them, how gorgeous and special they are and how proud we are of them, their self esteem is boosted, confidence levels shoot up, they focus on achieving more and they are more likely to be saved from dangerous or irresponsible behaviour and habits.
When we constantly belittle our children there comes a time when they begin to believe whatever we have said. This results in low self esteem and psychological disorders or complexes. In turn they resort to irresponsible behaviour and habits. However, when we constantly praise our children, telling them how important they are to us, how much we love them, how gorgeous and special they are and how proud we are of them, their self esteem is boosted, confidence levels shoot up, they focus on achieving more and they are more likely to be saved from dangerous or irresponsible behaviour and habits.
This is why
we MUST go out of our way to make such heart warming statements to them
regularly and never forget to do the same to ALL our children.
Our
Rabb (Cherisher and Sustainer)! Accept (this service) from us. Verily,
You are the All-Hearing, the All Knowing.” (Qur’ân 2:127)
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